First of all, my apologies to everyone for missing last month. I was traveling and didn’t get a chance to get an article done. My travels this summer had me in Omaha teaching a “Sensual Torture” class. So I thought it would be fun to explain this in an article.
Although it’s called sensual torture, there is not so much torture as there is sensual overload. It’s the type of play that just about anyone can do and you don’t need any “toys” to do it. Just your fingers and mouth will work.
The idea is to keep up the sensual pleasure until the person reaches sensual overload. Tickling, touching, running your fingers and hands over the body, biting, licking are all part of it. To get the person to overload, you need to do multiple things at the same time. Why? Well, because most people can control themselves when there is just a single item being done, such as caressing or touching. The intent here is to get the person to a point where they are no longer in control of themselves. To do this you do multiple types of sensual play all at the same time.
Having this done to them will cause them to not be able to focus and will cause them to lose that control. Once they have lost control, then the fun begins. Because everything you do to them will send them into an overload sensation.
One of the most important key factors in this type of play is to NOT let up. You keep going and going, because when you let up in the play, it allows the person to regain control. This is the torture part, not allowing the person to ever get back in control of themselves.
Some simple items you can use with this type of play are things you find around your house. A soft rag, a rough rag, an old toothbrush, something fuzzy (faux fur), feathers, emery boards, anything that you can think of.
Another item I use is a spoon or butter knife kept in ice water (pull it out, use it, put it back in the ice; you need to keep it cold) and a spoon or butter knife kept in hot water. By swapping out the two, the person will eventually not know whether it’s the hot item or the cold item.
Oh, by the way, did I mention that this works really, REALLY well when the person is blindfolded? Suit ties work great for blindfolds. So do old handkerchiefs. Although it’s not totally necessary, it helps. Because then they can’t see what you’re about to do to them next and it makes it all the more fun to play. But I don’t always use a blindfold because I want to see the look in their eyes when they come off the bed or table with a “I’m going to kill you” look. TEEHEEHEEHEE. Just love that.
So if you want to do sensual play, go for it. It’s fun and anyone can do it. And best of all, you don’t have to be kinky to enjoy it. If anyone would like to learn more, please contact me at [email protected] l